If you believe that women should care for the household and children while men are working hard, it's okay, because everybody can have their own beliefs. But do me a favor and stop telling me I'll grow up to be a failure in life when I openly tell you I do not intend to have children or get married. And I'd also be pleased if you stopped threatening me with detention if I speak up during your rants, because again, everybody can have their own beliefs, and yours aren't mine.